Lazy, Crazy Days of Summer

(This essay originally appeared in Main Line Life newspaper on 7/16/08.)
As I see children being shuttled to their summer day camps, swim and tennis lessons, and play-dates I wonder if at any point in their childhood they will be allowed to just run free. Gone are the days when you could assume your child would be safe roaming the neighborhood on foot or on bikes with other kids on your street. And when you live in an area that is as developed and urban as ours is, the opportunity to explore the outdoors is also limited. I doubt whether most kids today will ever know, as I did growing up, the wonders of the clay pits.

The clay pits was one of those places that today’s constantly monitored children would never be allowed near. When I think of all the ways we could have been accidentally maimed or killed playing there, I still shudder. Our parents either had no idea what a dangerous place it was, or they just believed strongly in Darwin’s theory – maybe a few of us needed to be weeded out. Continue reading

Corpse Flowers

Today I ran over to the Chicago Botanic Garden as soon as I got an email that was sent out to members, that two corpse flowers were going to be in a rare dual bloom for about twenty-four hours. As a writer who has written several short stories about husbands who meet unsavory endings, I knew I had to witness the blooming of a corpse flower. Not sure how I will use it yet, but there are certainly some possibilities…

I’m Back to My Website…

After taking the month of May off from my daily postings to this website, I will be back tomorrow, June 1st. I will still be sharing some previously published work, as well as links to current essays and stories. Also, I may post new work or commentary that is too long for Twitter, but not long enough for a “normal” essay. Thanks for following my blog!

A Real Circus Has to Smell Like One

(This essay appeared in 1990 in The Beach Reporter. Ringling Bros. just this week announced it is closing down, but Circus Vargas appears to still be going strong. I don’t have any desire to see a circus now, as I know the animals lead mostly hellish lives, but I’m glad I have the memory of going to them as a child and as a parent.)

Laaaddeeezz and gentlemen… We live in a time when we have seen a man walk on the moon. Hollywood has outdone itself entertaining us with the most outrageous car chases, the most fiery explosions, the biggest stars.

Then why is it that with all this glitzy entertainment at our fingertips, we still turn once a year to one of the oldest forms of entertainment – the circus? Long before there were movie theaters, television, even before radio, circuses were one of the big events of the year for family entertainment. And judging from last week’s crowds at Circus Vargas, the circus is still the greatest show on earth. Continue reading